The Jordan Love Backstory
What you might not know about his journey to becoming Green Bay's quarterback.
By KenLass
Bakersfield, California is a town of around 400,000 people, located roughly two hours north of Los Angeles. It is often referred to as “Nashville West” because of its connection to country music. Several famous country stars came from there, including Merle Haggard and Buck Owens.
Orbin and Anna Love lived in a modest home there, raising their three daughters Emily, Kami and Alexis. Orbin cherished his girls, but he also longed for a son. Someone to whom he could teach his beloved game of football. Someone he could mentor and develop into maybe following in his footsteps. Orbin was a quarterback with a dream of one day starting under center in the National Football League. But his football career advanced only to the point of being a running back for Bakersfield Community College.
Upon realizing pro football was not in the cards, Orbin pursued law enforcement, and would go on to serve as a policeman in the Bakersfield police department for 26 years. When Anna became pregnant with their fourth child, Orbin’s hopes for a son rose again. On November 2, 1998, Anna did indeed give birth to a beautiful baby boy. Orbin was over the moon and wanted to name the child after the most famous athlete in the world. He wanted to name him Michael Jordan Love. Anna wasn’t crazy about the boy carrying that name, and the couple settled on Jordan Alexander Love.
As soon as the child was able, Orbin started teaching him everything he knew about sports. Jordan was involved in baseball, basketball and football throughout his grade school years. Not only did his dad never miss a game, he always volunteered to coach or be an assistant coach on Jordan’s teams. The youngster showed potential in basketball in those days, and was a pretty good baseball player. But that was not his father’s vision. Nearly every day Orbin would go to work and brag to his fellow police officers “My son is going to be a quarterback, and one day he will be a star in the NFL”. They would smile and humor him, if nothing else admiring his faith and dedication.
Entering high school at five foot six and 130 pounds, Jordan was a bit small to be able to see over the defensive linemen. But he could run and he had good hands, so some of his coaches tried him out at receiver. But Jordan was a quarterback, his dad insisted. Jordan wound up as the back-up quarterback on the freshman team at Liberty High School.
Around that time, Orbin began to act strangely. He had been on blood pressure medication. His doctors had recently changed the prescription, and the new drugs seemed to be having an adverse effect. He would often seem dazed and confused. Orbin had always been a reliable fix-it guy. One of those folks who could take almost anything apart and repair it. But these days he couldn’t even seem to figure out how to remove a spare tire from it's bracket. Anna was concerned and was keeping a close eye on him.
It was on a Saturday morning when Anna had taken Jordan to one of his basketball games. Orbin was to arrive later, just in time for tip-off. He never showed up. Anna immediately knew something was wrong. Jordan’s dad never missed a game. Never. She left the gym immediately and drove home. She found Orbin lying on the bed in their bedroom. At the age of 51, he had used his service weapon to take his own life.
There was no note. In an article by Chase Goodbread for nfl.com, Anna was quoted as saying “I just wanted the world to know this was not depression, and to know that even though people would find out it was suicide, that it was because of the medication. There is no way Orbin Love would've ever considered taking his life. His medicine did this to his mind."
Jordan had lost his father, his mentor, his motivating force. He was fourteen years old. The tragic loss caused him to question his pursuit of his father’s vision. A few weeks after the funeral, he was sitting in the car with his mother. Jordan told her he wanted to quit football. Anna understood the grief, but she also didn’t want her son to make a rash decision. She convinced him to play football for one more year. After that, if he still wanted to quit, so be it.
That year he worked hard to improve his footwork and throwing accuracy. It rekindled his interest in the game. It also didn’t hurt that he would grow nine inches taller and gain 80 pounds over the next three years. He would win the starting quarterback job for the Liberty junior varsity. His confidence was growing in sync with his body. As a senior on the varsity, he threw for 2,148 yards and 24 touchdowns. He also ran for 806 yards and eight more scores. He led the Patriots to the state semi-finals. No small feat, considering this was California, the most populous state in the country, and a hotbed for high school football talent.
Even so, the national recruiting services rated him no higher than a two star prospect (out of five stars). He received only one scholarship offer. It was from Utah State. He accepted it.
You know the story from there.
This Sunday he will take the field as the full time starting quarterback for the most historically famous team in the annals of pro football, playing in the oldest and most famous rivalry in all of pro football. Somewhere, in a precinct house in Bakersfield, a group of policemen will be gathered around a television, remembering that proud prediction made by one of their fellow officers years ago, and they’ll be smiling. Of course, Anna will be watching too. If Jordan Love becomes a star, it may surprise his critics, but it won’t surprise her.
She had long ago caught the vision. A vision formed by her husband before Green Bay’s quarterback was even born.
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Ken Lass is a former Green Bay television sports anchor and 43 year media veteran, a lifelong Packers fan, and a shareholder.
Comments (38)
TKWorldWide
September 04, 2023 at 07:22 am
Up until reading this, I only knew this stuff in a general sense.
Now I’m REALLY pulling for him!
GPG!
Cheesey51
September 04, 2023 at 07:26 am
With a growing up story like Jordan’s, he may just be the best QB of the packers to carry the G
murf7777
September 04, 2023 at 12:29 pm
I agree, but with many fans that will last till the Packers lose a game due to interceptions or lack of completions. I liked the draft pick then and still do now. Go Jordan Love Go.
LambeauPlain
September 04, 2023 at 08:07 am
I read this backstory on Jordan the day after he was drafted, TK. It is part of the reason I have been pulling for Jordan Love. There is a wealth of character and determination in that young man.
Was impressed then, and Ken did a fine Job writing about it now. Talk about adversity for a young man, a high School freshman losing his Dad, mentor and coach due to a preventable suicide, caused by mis-prescribed blood pressure drugs! The gnawing feeling of loss, constant questions, the "why my dad...he was fine before the meds" stuff, the "what ifs", the emptiness, sorrow, anger and self pity that can seep in and take over your life.
It did not seep into Jordan Love. He overcame it all. A testament to his Dad...and his Mom. Well done, Mr. and Mrs. Love....well done Jordan.
Savage57
September 04, 2023 at 08:00 am
As the survivor of a parental suicide, I can attest to the bewilderment and devastation it leaves in its wake, the wondering, the questioning, and the ah-f**kitness that comes along for the ride for a long time afterwards.
But with the passage of time, it hardens your resolve to prove yourself like few other things can or will. You look for the answer to that one question which remains forever in how you go about everything you do, every challenge you face, every hurdle you overcome.
Knowing this about him I can attest when he's on the short end of a play, a game or a season, his response to any of that seeming adversity will be pretty much, "Hold my beer".
LambeauPlain
September 04, 2023 at 08:09 am
Thanks for sharing this, Savage. Fine words.
Savage57
September 04, 2023 at 08:39 am
I didn't know the whole story.
Upon reading it, my confidence in his ability to handle adversity skyrocketed.
greengold
September 04, 2023 at 09:01 am
Major props to you, Savage57, for sharing your insights & experience. Respect.
Like yourself, I hadn't known the details of how Jordan Love lost his father, only that he passed while Jordan was at an early age. Have felt this entire time that Jordan Love walks into 1265 Lombardi Avenue with the most character of any QB since the days of Bart Starr. He's got a quiet, sure confidence about him, and handles himself well as a team leader, in virtually every aspect the job requires.
I wish him the very best as our new QB1 in Green Bay, and I thank you, Ken, for this wonderfully written backstory on Jordan Love. He's a truly deserving soul.
Go get 'em, Jordan.
NickPerry
September 04, 2023 at 11:36 am
Thank you Savage57. That is an awesome comment...
LambeauPlain
September 04, 2023 at 08:21 am
This finely written Backstory by Ken, displays quite a connection between Jordan Love and the former Packers QB...no, no not that guy.
I am referring to Brett. Brett also lost his Dad, coach, and mentor at a relatively young age. Big Irv was the weld behind the Iron Man QB. Like Orbin, he pushed his son to work harder, be better, don't give up...get up!
Big Irv and Orbin would be having some great conversations at Lambeau Field this season, wouldn't they? Well, they probably already are!
WestCoastPackerBacker
September 04, 2023 at 11:39 am
Favre was 34 when his dad died, with over a decade starting in the NFL. So a little different situation.
croatpackfan
September 05, 2023 at 04:20 am
Still...
Handsback
September 04, 2023 at 08:59 am
Thank you Ken for the back story. I also agree that it was well written.
I think that as fans we see that Love has matured and grown as a player. It's whats driving our excitement for this season. Good, bad, or ugly, we want this kid to succeed and take the Packers to the playoffs. Reading about his life only fuels our desire for him to be successful.
We know his performance will be up and down, but it sounds like his character will be rock solid for life.
Just MHO
TheVOR
September 04, 2023 at 09:10 am
Thanks for this terrific story! I’ll be watching and wishing for all the best for Jordan on Sunday and for the balance of his career, whatever that may look like!
It’s just amazes me that sports in general have so many diverse stories of perseverance and triumph. It would almost seem that only a certain type of individual who can overcome these obstacles in life and continue to drive and strive for greatness, actually make, and can play this game.
Leatherhead
September 04, 2023 at 09:23 am
I'll just say this: Life has a lot of ways to beat you down. But I'm always reminded of what a famous football coach said when I was little, that it's what you do after you get knocked down that defines you. Champions get knocked down, but they get up again.
Jordan Love got knocked down hard. He got up. That says a lot to me.
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 09:47 am
What a wonderful article. I did not know any of this and it is such a good read.
I had tears in my eyes reading this and so touched by this article. I sure hope Jordan continues on and plays his best for us this season and forward.
My son took his own life this summer and I understand the feelings felt by Savage57 in his post. It has been just a terrible summer for us and it did feel good reading this article. My son was such a big packer fan. He moved to Dallas and he told me that the Cowboy fans were something else and he proudly displayed his Packer flag prominently all the time.
I was never going to comment on my son's death on this forum but it just seemed natural after reading this article.
murf7777
September 04, 2023 at 12:34 pm
My condolences Hawk!
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 12:50 pm
Thank you murf7777.
MilwPackFan
September 04, 2023 at 02:45 pm
My condolences. Prayers to you and your family.
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 04:44 pm
Thanks for your prayers MilwPackFan.
Handsback
September 04, 2023 at 03:11 pm
Hawk,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I live North of Dallas and also very proud to wear my Packer's hat or shirt whenever possible.
I lost my wife in February, and while I understand grief, I can't imagine what you and your wife must be going through. Thanks for sharing.
HB
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 04:47 pm
Thank you Handsback. You certainly know what grief is with losing your wife Handsback. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing your spouse and realize it will happen to my wife or me someday. Thanks again.
LambeauPlain
September 04, 2023 at 03:48 pm
My goodness, Hawk. My deepest sympathies. May you and your family find Comfort and Peace. It took courage to share this.
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 04:48 pm
Thank you so much LP. It seems like everyone on this website is so understanding with things like this. That made it so much easier to post.
MainePackFan
September 04, 2023 at 06:41 pm
God Bless you Hawk. My wife died of cancer at 51. I lost my daughter at birth. Those were, and still are, incredibly painful memories. I can't imagine how much more painful that would have been if they had chosen their fate.
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 11:30 pm
Lots of emotions Maine. Thanks for your thoughts.
Cheesey51
September 04, 2023 at 07:22 pm
Waiting behind #12 for 3 years was nothing compared to the loss of his mentor Dad
I have no predictions on Jordan Love's future yet if remains as strong as his past shows, Love will be the best of GB QB's to Carry The G!!!!
Let's get behind him and support his team and leave the criticism to the National press. They don't see it anywho
Cheesey51
mnbadger
September 04, 2023 at 08:54 pm
My brother died in a car accident way to young.
my mother said losing him was harder than losing her parents, her husband (my dad) or her sister.
No parent should have to bury a child.
I am sorry for your loss and wish you any comfort that I can give.
Hang in there.
Hopefully the Pack can offer a reprieve and help you and your family look forward in a small way.
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 11:33 pm
Thank you so much mnbadger. Appreciate your words so very much. You take care as well.
barutanseijin
September 04, 2023 at 09:00 pm
Oh that’s rough, Hawk. Sorry to hear that. I hope you have the support you need. Hang in there.
HawkPacker
September 04, 2023 at 11:33 pm
Thank you barutanseijin.
SicSemperTyrannis
September 04, 2023 at 10:42 am
What a moving story. Thanks for sharing it with us, Ken!
If it becomes better known maybe GB will undisputedly become "America's team."
NickPerry
September 04, 2023 at 11:33 am
Wow, now I like him even more. I lost my Pops at 24 which was extremely difficult for me at least. But to lose your Father that way and at 14 is just brutal IMO. Now, even more than before I want this kid to be GREAT. He doesn't have to be HOF great, but ownership of the Bears would be nice, and to shut those up still bitching about him being drafted in the 1st FOUR years ago would be right up there too!
murf7777
September 04, 2023 at 12:35 pm
Let’s hope he becomes that HOF QB, due to his personality, he would be the best since Starr!
stockholder
September 04, 2023 at 11:37 am
Very Nice background Article - Informative for sure.
It’s interesting that you put that out at this time.
Because you just put the nail in Rodgers coffin.
No longer can Love be judged in a Negative way.
And this Article should Triumph over Quick judgements.
If he shows the “moxie” needed.
He will be that Qb GB Needs.
Qoojo
September 04, 2023 at 11:42 am
Tough story. I did not know any of his background. I do agree with his mother on the naming. Good call by mom.
MainePackFan
September 04, 2023 at 06:45 pm
I don't know, MJ Love has a nice ring to it.
You're right though, tough story. I was already rooting hard for Jordan, it just increased my respect for him.
croatpackfan
September 05, 2023 at 12:04 pm
I know it is late, but, Ken, this is the articles you should concentrate on. We already analysed past and, because of that leave the past in the past. Thank you!